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Elissa Da Costa-Waldman

London

Elissa has both expertise and experience as a mediator and a strong commitment to ensuring that parties reach a solution on terms with which they are both content. She has tremendous people skills and recognises that often there are issues outside the mediation room that need addressing before a successful mediation can take place.

Elissa is tenacious in enabling and facilitating parties to explore all options so that they arrive at a solution to their dispute that the parties can feel is their own and not something imposed upon them.

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Elissa Da Costa-Waldman
Profession

Profession

Barrister

Profession

Local Panel

London

Profession

Specialist Panel

Civil Disputes

Membership Level

Membership Level

Elite

Elissa's Experience


 
Areas of Expertise
  • Trust of Land and Appointment of Trustees Act (TOLATA)
  • Financial remedies
  • Children disputes
Mediation Style

Elissa has an empathic, sensitive and yet robust and lively style to her mediations, enabling parties to air their emotional issues, often a barrier to successful mediation, in order to pave the way forward for creative solutions to be found and considered and parties to feel empowered that they are the authors of their outcome.

Professional Background
Elissa is a Barrister of thirty five years standing. She has a strong commitment to resolving disputes out of court and is a quaified mediator, collaborative lawyer and family law arbitrator (finance and children). Elissa's particular expertise is in TOLATA claims (Trusts of Land and Appointment of Trustees Act 1996) considering these claims to be especially well suited to mediation given the unpredictability of the court decision making process.
Memberships
  • Family Law Bar Association
  • Civil Mediation Council
History
  • 17 November 2016
    TOLATA
    Adjourned

  • 25 March 2015
    TOLATA
    Settled

  • 20 February 2015
    Family Finance
    Settled

  • 22 October 2014
    Shares Dispute
    Settled

  • 4 October 2013
    Inheritance
    Settled

  • 21 January 2013
    Family Finance
    Settled

  • 19 January 2012
    TOLATA
    Did Not Settle

  • 24 November 2010
    Family Finance
    Settled

  • 24 May 2010
    Family Dispute
    Did Not Settle

  • 2 February 2010
    Family Finance
    Settled

  • 17 December 2009
    Family Finance
    Settled

  • 22 October 2009
    Family Dispute
    Settled

  • 9 September 2009
    Family Dispute
    Settled

  • 23 June 2009
    Family Dispute
    Settled

  • 22 June 2009
    Family Dispute
    Settled

  • 05 June 2009
    Family Dispute
    Settled

  • 02 April 2009
    Family Dispute
    Settled

  • 8 May 2009
    Family Finance
    Settled

  • 16 March 2009
    Family Finance
    Settled

  • 10 September 2008
    Court of Appeal (Family)
    Settled

  • 8 September 2006
    Family Dispute
    Settled

  • 16 January 2006
    Family Finance
    Settled

  • 11 November 2005
    Family Finance
    Adjourned

  • 10 March 2004
    Family Finance
    Settled

  • 27 June 2003
    Family Dispute
    Settled

  • 2 April 2003
    Family Dispute
    Settled

Elissa's Testimonials

I just wanted to pass on my deepest thanks for all you did for us at the mediation last week to achieve a fair result. It wasn't the financial outcome that made the greatest difference (though my goodness, that was life changing in itself!), but the fact you helped us to finally draw a line under it.

Your artful mediation, kindness and empathy will never be forgotten. I could see immediately that you had as much emotional intelligence as you do academic intelligence, and that's both rare and heartening. Thank goodness for you and all your hard work.

I can not imagine the number of people you must have helped over the course of your career, but I wanted to let you know that I, for one, will never forget it.

 

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